Just like any man in this world who does not wear skinny jeans, Natb adores the femininity in our women. I believe it is an asset that God bestowed on them at no price. We (well, I) are getting worried with the woman of today. Maybe I was born a couple of years late, or I am getting paranoid.
It is becoming harder and harder to find a feminine woman, a real feminine woman. Many of them are imposters. I expect a feminine woman to have a feminine character on top of the feminine physical features. Many people laugh at semenya yet they are semenyas in their own way.
Nowadays women do not want to be associated with the kitchen and the laundry basket. According to me these are the areas that bring out the feminine side of any lady. Bumming and acting all lazy has its rightful players. House hold chores have always been done by women (stop with the looks!). With the advent of mboches, no woman wants to be caught cleaning dirty dishes. They forget that mboches are house ‘helps’; theyre supposed to help. Get the dictionary. The more one avoids household chores, the more her femininity diminishes. The more she graduates into a semenya.
Jobs are drawing women from their feminine sides. Women are now taking jobs which require them to fold their sleeves back and engage in bare knuckle fights with men. In the process of kicking, hitting and weave pulling they lose the fundamental values that make them female. They will develop stubbornness and aggressiveness that their better halves have to deal with.
I believe there is a reason why gender roles are stereotyped. Some jobs are clearly meant for men, while others are for women. Of course there exceptions here and there. In 1971, Sandra Bem came up with a Bem gender role inventory that changed everything. She suggested that there was a possibility of a female having masculine attributes and vice versa. Although this was kinda true, people are taking it all wrong. Nowadays others want to be things they can never hack.
Other people may argue that sex is the biggest form of portraying femininity. I object. These days people have sex with anything. Jerry, of boston legal has a relationship with an inflated doll for christ’s sake. To me, sex is as a result of aroused desires, and it does not matter what or who will quench them. A woman is woman enough if she acts all woman. The bible is clear on how a woman/wife should behave. Being submissive, get your dictionary again….sigh. That’s all.
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How do you as a man know what it is being a female??
ReplyDeleteWhen your mothers are breaking their back trying to earn money for kids that have been abandoned by their fathers why don't you tell them stop doing that working isn't feminine???
I am not saying working aint feminine...it is the effect of working (especially in the corporate world) that i do not agree with. Women are getting more arrogant and at the same time leaving house hold tasks that are meant to be performed by them. I am expressing how men view femininity from their side.
ReplyDeleteSingle women fending for their families is feminine. Even the bible tells of the qualities of a woman, one being taking care of the family.